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How We Wrap Winter in Dough
From clearing out old kimchi jars to dumpling traditions across the Silk Road, mandu is both a family ritual and a shared human story of wrapping love into dough.
From clearing out old kimchi jars to dumpling traditions across the Silk Road, mandu is both a family ritual and a shared human story of wrapping love into dough.
Over time, I’ve built a small digital collection of travel photos. Mostly food.
I don’t post them on Facebook or public social media. Instead, I keep a private space for my closest family. It’s how I let them see what I see, taste what I taste.
My mom, endlessly curious and eager to learn, often messages me about the dishes in my pictures. Since many of them are unfamiliar to her, I describe them in comparisons:
“Ravioli is like small Italian mandu.”
Mandu (만두) is wheat dough wrapped around a filling of minced meat, vegetables, or both. Versions of this exist everywhere, but the fillings and the reasons behind them vary. In Korea where I grew up, one big reason for making mandu was kimchi (김치).
In Korea, there’s a tradition called Kimjang (김장), making large quantities of kimchi before winter. A family might have enough to last a year. But by spring, the old kimchi, called mukeunji (묵은지), starts tasting intense: strong aroma, deep tang. Delicious to some (like me), but not everyone.
My mom, ever resourceful, repurposed the old kimchi into mandu fillings.
Here’s how we did it:
Once everything was prepped, it’s time for mixing. The taste of the filling alone was so good we had to stop ourselves from eating it before wrapping.
On mandu day, the whole family sat on the floor around a low table. My mom managed the operation: keeping everyone’s tea cups full, bringing out more filling as needed, and whisking away finished mandu to be steamed or boiled. She cooled them on trays outside on the balcony. Winter in Korea made a perfect natural freezer.
Yes, part of her goal was to use up old kimchi so she could make fresh batches. But we also ended up with enough mandu to last until New Year, when they’d be served with tteokguk (떡국), rice cake soup in rich bone broth. Comfort in a bowl.
In Korea, mandu is named the same way many other dishes are named, by what it contains or how it’s prepared. Just like bap (밥) becomes kongbap when beans are added, mandu follows a similar logic. Add kimchi and it becomes kimchi-mandu (김치만두). Focus on meat and it becomes gogi-mandu (고기만두). Put it in soup and it becomes manduguk (만두국). Steam it, fry it, pan-sear it, the method simply attaches itself to the name.
The structure stays the same. The identity shifts slightly depending on what surrounds it.
These days, my favorite way of eating mandu is much simpler than the winter production days of my childhood. I buy them from a local supermarket. There are now many Korean brands available abroad, neatly packed and frozen. I boil them and drop them into ramyeon (라면), or I make a quick manduguk (만두국) when I want something warm but uncomplicated. It’s not ceremonial. It’s practical. But it still carries the same comfort.
Mandu no longer fills our balcony in winter. It sits quietly in my freezer. And yet, whenever I boil a few, it still feels like something wrapped from home.
When I first came across mantu at a local Afghan restaurant, it looked just like the mandu (만두) I grew up eating. Even the name sounded familiar. At first, I thought it was coincidence.
It wasn’t.
Across Asia, especially along the Silk Road, dumplings traveled with traders, migrants, and families for centuries. Names shifted slightly. Fillings adapted. Shapes changed. But the structure remained recognizable.
There is a clear linguistic and cultural thread:
China (mantou) → Central Asia (manti) → Afghanistan (mantu) → Korea (mandu).
The dumpling moved. The word moved. People moved. And somehow, the wrapping stayed.
Whether for convenience, to repurpose old kimchi, or to welcome guests with a symbolic “wrapping of good fortune,” the idea of enclosing food in dough appears across cultures. Different flours, different fillings, different techniques, but the same core instinct: wrap something good inside and share it.
Across East Asia, you find
Across Central Asia and the Silk Road,
Across Eastern Europe,
And elsewhere,
Once, a classmate from language school told me he makes hundreds of pierogi every Christmas. He called it tradition. I don’t know whether it’s a Polish custom or simply his family’s ritual, but I understood it immediately. Like Mexican families gathering to make tamales before Christmas, folding, steaming, stacking, it’s a way of wrapping winter in dough. Mandu fits into that same rhythm for me. Not as a symbol, not as nostalgia, but as something made together and stored for later.
During the COVID lockdown, my husband and I began making mandu at home again. Not in large winter batches like my mother did, but in smaller rounds, enough for a few meals at a time. We tried different fillings, adjusted seasoning, folded them in uneven shapes that revealed our inexperience and patience at the same time.
Leftover dough never went to waste. We rolled it out and cut it into strips for kalguksu (칼국수). The kitchen counter filled with flour. The freezer slowly filled with trays.
Making mandu like that was fun. It reminded me that mandu isn’t complicated, but it is intentional. It takes time at the table and hands working side by side. Even far from where I grew up, the process feels familiar. Wrapped food, prepared in advance, resting in the freezer, ready when needed.
